Today, October 24, marks the beginning of my astrological sign for 2012.
To celebrate, I've lifted a great article lifted from WikiHow about dating Scorpios. All but a few apply VERY much to yours truly!
My added emphasis is underscored
. My remarks are in Red.
The e color of Scorpios, of course!
How to Treat a Scorpio
Scorpios can be very loyal and loving friends, but to become true friends with a Scorpio, it may take some time to prove that you are a friend they can trust completely. This is guide that will help you gain trust with a Scorpio:1. Scorpios have the most beautiful eyes, but as beautiful as they may appear to be, they see lots of things, but they may not show it,they analyze instead of just looking
Remember that a Scorpio is very observant and can see through things very easily, which means if you are being dishonest with a Scorpio, they intuitively sense that you are not worthy of their trust which means no friendship. Therefore, they know when you're lying. Also, some signs can read Scorpio's emotions only through their eyes. Um, yep. That's me.
2. Scorpios like to hear you talk about yourself instead of talking about themselves.
Tell a Scorpio something about yourself and they will most likely remember it. But try not to tell them everything all at once, because then the Scorpio won't have anything to be intrigued about you, because they like to slowly gather information and once they have it all, its less interesting.
I absolutely love listening to your story. Especially the sexy bits :)
3. Scorpios are all about mystery and finding things out.
They are the most curious people you will find, whether they show it or not. There has to be something that they are interested in, like music, the opposite sex, places they want to visit. Try to find out what they like the most, and do research on it. Make sure not to ask them questions that are too personal, but when you find out what they like, talk about it.
For me, the greatest mystery is our first date. That chemistry that unfolds between us, spontaneously and magically. There's no predicting it. So keep an open mind, and put yourself out there. That's what I do ... and wow is it fun!
4. Most Scorpios think about sex 24-7!
Even though they might not show it, they think about it, but don't take this lightly, because the males especially fight their temptations and preserve themselves for someone who they feel is really trustworthy of having sex with them.
The females, however, can be absolute nymphos. Or so I've been told ...
5. What Scorpios appreciate is when you treat them with respect, give them 100 percent of respect, they will give you 100 percent!
Trust me! For example, let's say your Scorpio friend is standing next to one of their friends, that you know. You can hug that person quickly, and when you hug the Scorpio, you hug them longer and slower.
Longer and slower is always best.
Scorpios almost always notice the smallest things and will appreciate them even if they don't show it at times.
So true. But I always try to show it.
6. Don't get a Scorpio to be mad at you, whether you do it intentionally or unintentionally.
When you make a Scorpio mad at you, as much as they want to forget it, they'll find it hard to. They will remember what you did to hurt them for a long time.
Truly, I am a very nice person. It takes a lot to deserve a glimpse of my dark side.
Besides, you'll have plenty of warning before the stinger comes out.
(Tsk, tsk, dirty boy, I so know what you're thinking)
7. Remember that Scorpios that are the most quiet, are the ones who know it all, and they secretly know what is going on amongst them.
They've seen you when you didn't notice, and they detect if you are good enough for them, just by seeing.
Hmmm. If I was ever quiet, this might be true!
But I love to talk. And make other noises.
8. The Scorpio has a strong sex appeal, whether they show it or not, and are proud of it.
Sure. Let me show you my trophies.
10. When a Scorpio watches you and tries to get your eye contact, they have been watching you because they are trying to analyze what is on the inside
9. Scorpios value anyone who isn't afraid of being themselves.
They love people who are themselves. Also, most of them have no fear of anything. They may show fear, but it is not likely they have as much fear as they show. And tell them your interests and be honest when they ask you questions - they most likely won't be anything personal.
When you've gone through all I have, just to be who you truly are, you value it all the more in others.
HINT: You can probably be yourself around me more than any other person. So do!
Return the flirting look with them and they will now be waiting for you to go up to them casually. Flirting is a lost art. But I keep finding it ...11. If you are on a date with a Scorpio, don't try to kiss them on the first date.
They will think you don't really want a solid relationship with them, and that's what a Scorpio wants, deep inside.
Me not kiss? Surely they jest. I love to kiss. First date, second date, third date ...However, I do enjoy some chit-chat first, just to relax, and get warmed up. 12. Most Scorpios like the colors black and red, or other dark colors.
They're dark and mysterious, just like themselves.Black and Red, really?13. When you have things in common with a Scorpio, share them.
Most of all, once they get to know you, they will know you more, so try to talk about things that you have in common.
This is easy. I have a broad range of interests and knowledge.14.
Many Scorpios aren't really into talking on the phone .
hey prefer faxes, e-mail, instant messaging, texting,
or talking in person. Absolutely not.
I totally prefer the phone. Always. Much more personal. 15. Scorpios love to compete - and most of all, win.
True. But I save this for Scrabble.
Don't play Scrabble with me. You will lose.16. Scorpios are really good friends.
Be loyal, treat them with love, respect, selflessness, intriguing, and they will appreciate you.
I have many long-standing clients. They all appreciate me.
And I am very good to them. Very.17. When a Scorpio gives you the stare, you know you've gotten their attention! I suppose.
Even more so, the exact opposite, when my eyes are softly closing ...18. What does a Scorpio really want deep inside?
They want to love and trust somebody.
They want to feel appreciated and they hate dishonest people and "fake" people. Compliment them, but never overdo it.
Show them that you care about them. Be selfless and they will repay it by treating you the same way.
Whatever you give to them, they will give it back to you with respect.
If you want to win their heart, you have to be honest at all times.
Don't play with their emotions.
Scorpios are the most loyal people you will ever meet if they feel you are worthy of their loyalty and love.Scorpios are true lovers. Nice summary. Yep.19. Betraying a Scorpio is the best way to break the bond you once had
They'll sting you and knock down ALL your defenses! See Number 6.
Honestly, all you fellas who ask "what do you like" and are waiting for me to name a position, or some "activity", you're so barking up the wrong tree. Read these 19 points, you'll be totally prepared, and have me purring like a sleek, sexy pussy-cat.
Your sexiest Scorpio ...